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THE 120: HANDS
The physical situations: repairs, forms, and the calls you keep putting off.
$47
The 120Start now
120 situations · one page each
You can't search for what you don't know exists.
120 situations everyone is expected to already handle. And the exact words for each one.
Take the free inventory — 3 minutes
No account. No card.
120
Situations
9
Domains
3 min
To your map
The recognition
I.01They ask again after you already said no.
IV.07You're handed something to sign, now.
V.03Something has been building for eight months.
There is a right answer to each of these. Nobody teaches them.
The reframe
32% of Americans lack basic household skills. The largest survey on practical gaps found over 80% of respondents unsure about them, with only 20% confident.
That is a curriculum gap, not a personal failing. These situations arrive with a shape and a script, and the script was never handed out. Once you can see the shape, you can learn the words.
How it works
01Mark 120 situations as Handle it, Fumble it, or Never come up.
02Get your Coverage Map.
03Get the exact words for the ones you fumble.
The architecture
Organized by what's happening, not where it happens — so one page works with your manager, your father, and a stranger at a door.
Sample Coverage Map
Handle itFumble itNever come up
I — Put on the spot4 found
II — Won't take no4 found
III — You're in the wrong4 found
IV — They control it4 found
V — The hard thing4 found
VI — You're new3 found
VII — Being difficult4 found
VIII — Treated as less5 found
IX — Gone wrong, fast3 found
| Shape | Found | Of |
|---|---|---|
| I — Put on the spot | 4 | 14 |
| II — Won't take no | 4 | 14 |
| III — You're in the wrong | 4 | 12 |
| IV — They control it | 4 | 14 |
| V — The hard thing | 4 | 12 |
| VI — You're new | 3 | 12 |
| VII — Being difficult | 4 | 14 |
| VIII — Treated as less | 5 | 16 |
| IX — Gone wrong, fast | 3 | 12 |
| Total | 35 | 120 |
Amber is not failure. Amber is found.
What readers say
“I took the inventory on a Tuesday and used three of the scripts by Friday. The one for 'they ask again after you already said no' was worth the whole thing.”
“Nobody tells you these things. I'm 41 and I'd been winging every single one. The Coverage Map showed me exactly where the gaps were.”
“I expected another checklist I'd forget about. It isn't. It reads like a field manual — short, direct, no filler. I keep the tab open.”
What you get
The full 120-situation inventory
Your Coverage Map
A syllabus ranked by how often it happens and what it costs
One page per situation: the read, the first ten seconds, the exact words, and what to do if they push back
Who this isn't for
Everything else on this is worksheets, or it's written for children. This assumes you're a functioning adult who was simply never told.
Price and stack
THE 120
120 situations. The read, the first ten seconds, and the exact words for each.
Bulk pricing
Buy more than one volume in the same checkout and the discount applies automatically. Two volumes: 10% off. Three: 15% off. All four: 20% off.
The rest of the stack · 3 companions
III
THE REHEARSAL
Practice scripts you run out loud before the conversation happens.
$57
IV
THE SECOND CHAIR
The words for speaking on behalf of someone else.
$67
Take the free inventory — 3 minutes
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